HEAL FROM INTIMATE PARTNER BETRAYAL WITH EXPERT HELP
Recover After Infidelity And Betrayal
Have you discovered your partner’s devastating secret? Feeling shocked, lost and let down by the lying, cheating and betrayal?
Get Help From An Expert Who Understands Infidelity And Betrayal Trauma
Rhian Kivits, Relate qualified Therapist and Expert, offers you support, guidance and healing as you recover from shock, pain and relationship trauma after infidelity and betrayal.
She can help you if your world has been torn apart by affairs, cheating, sex addiction, internet misuse or problematic sexual behaviour.
She combines her professional knowledge of the best trauma-informed interventions with a wealth of experience helping betrayed partners heal, restore their self-esteem and reclaim their lives. She offers valuable insight into the behaviours and motivations of cheating partners, helping you understand the dynamics and patterns that have been playing out in your relationship.
She offers a safe space to help you find stability, understand, accept and process the reality of what has happened, find relief from the symptoms of betrayal trauma, reconnect to yourself and explore healthy future relationships.
Rhian has completed the APSATS (The Association Of Partners Of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists) Multi-Dimensional Partner Trauma Model training as well as Relate training in Couples & Affairs and a professional development program that covered working with sex addiction, supporting the partners of sex addicts and helping couples impacted by sex addiction.
Manage The Crisis Of Infidelity & Betrayal
Manage the crisis as you make important decisions to ensure that you’re safe, protected and able to cope after you’ve discovered your partner’s infidelity and betrayal.
Choose Healing After Infidelity & Betrayal
Find clarity about the ways forward that are right for you and start putting yourself and your healing first so that you are no longer being harmed by deception and excuses.
Create Stability After Infidelity & Betrayal
Learn tools to soothe your distress, restore calm and manage your emotions so that you feel more present and balanced as you heal from infidelity and betrayal.
Manage Betrayal Trauma Symptoms
Gain self-awareness as you identify and manage the relationship trauma symptoms that are impacting your mind, body, life and relationships after infidelity and betrayal.
Find Peace Of Mind After Infidelity & Betrayal
Come to understand why and how betrayal and infidelity crept into your relationship, release self-blame and work through the anger and crippling shame you’re feeling.
Heal The Wounds Of Infidelity & Betrayal
Examine how the infidelity and betrayal has damaged your view of yourself, others and the world. Heal the wounds that impact your self-esteem, self-image and sexual confidence.
Rebuild Your Life After Infidelity & Betrayal
Rediscover and reconnect with the parts of yourself that have been lost and stolen by acts of infidelity and betrayal. Design a life built on self-care, self-love, self-knowledge and self-trust.
Make Powerful Choices For Your Relationships
Embrace your voice and become deeply committed to your core values, boundaries, desires and expectations as you practice healthy, secure relationship behaviours.
THIS IS A SPECIALIST, PREMIUM THERAPEUTIC SERVICE OFFERING YOU SUPPORT, PERSONAL ATTENTION AND EXPERT GUIDANCE. APPOINTMENTS ARE AVAILABLE ONLINE TO ACCOMMODATE YOUR NEEDS WHEREVER YOU ARE IN THE WORLD.
The infidelity and betrayal were not within your control but you have the power to choose recovery.
What’s The Process?
When you seek Rhian’s help to recover from infidelity and betrayal, you’ll receive a personalised service.
After she takes a comprehensive case history, Rhian supports you with a transformational program that may integrate cognitive (mind-based), somatic (body-based), behavioural and solution-focused therapeutic approaches.
She takes your childhood and relationship history, family circumstances and other factors into account that may influence your choices and direction.
You can receive Rhian’s help regardless of your circumstances. You may have decided to stay with your partner, or you may not yet be certain about whether you can continue the relationship. Alternatively you may be separated or getting divorced. Whatever your situation, you can recover.
You may be invited to try self-help exercises and resources in-between sessions to support your journey.
Rhian adapts her approach and recommendations to suit your needs.
This is an online service and sessions are delivered via video call.
The quality of your experience is no different to an in-person service and the flexibility of working with Rhian online is suited to clients in any location.
Take action now to move beyond the pain and trauma of infidelity and betrayal and come home to yourself.
When you first discover your partner’s betrayal, it can feel as though your entire world has shattered in an instant. But how you cope with that shock and pain, however, can vary greatly from one person to another:
Perhaps you’ve gone into survival mode – numbing yourself, pushing through, and carrying on with your daily responsibilities, whether it’s managing work or caring for your children.
Or maybe you’ve been overwhelmed, swept away by waves of grief, shifting from anger to sadness and back again as you struggle to hold it all together.
It’s also possible that you’ve been in both places, getting through each day, yet surrendering to your distress once the curtains are closed at night.
If you’ve come to realise that you’ve lost sight of who you were before the betrayal, you owe it to yourself to heal. It’s time to make a powerful choice – to refuse to let this moment of devastation define you. It’s time to return home to yourself and rebuild your life, one step at a time.
RHIAN’S EXPERT COMMENT IS OFTEN FEATURED IN THE NATIONAL AND INTERNATIONAL PRESS – CLICK HERE TO READ HER ADVICE IN A DAILY TELEGRAPH ARTICLE ON BETRAYAL TRAUMA.
Get In Touch
If you’d like to enquire about Rhian’s availability drop us a line and we’ll get back to you within 48 hours to discuss the next steps.
Is This Right For You?
You're Feeling Stuck
You can spend hours on the internet reading and researching material about infidelity and betrayal but without clear guidance you can end up feeling bitter, confused and stuck.
Expert help is right for you if you’re ready to move forward.
Take Your Power Back
It’s very common for betrayed partners to feel hopeless. Perhaps you worry that you’ll never trust again or believe you’ve been permanently damaged by the infidelity.
Working on yourself is right for you if you want to stop fearing the future and want a more positive outlook.
Invest In Yourself
If you’re sick of replaying the details of the lying and cheating in your head, tired of wondering why this happened to you and fed up of feeling anxious, drained and depressed because your family has been torn apart by infidelity and betrayal, it’s time to invest in yourself.
Rhian’s help is right for you if you want to free your mind and body from the devastating legacy of betrayal trauma.
An initial assessment will help you identify betrayal trauma symptoms, ask your most pressing questions and consider the solutions that are suited to you.
The results of therapy or coaching always depend on your commitment, capacity to change and desire to work through the issues.
Please see Ts & Cs before booking.
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