Rhian Kivits, Relate qualified Therapist and Sex and Relationship Expert, runs an independent service for couples who want to solve problems, improve their sex lives and restore loving connection in their relationships. She also runs a specialist service for individuals recovering from the trauma of narcissistic abuse.

About Rhian

Rhian combines her knowledge of the most effective relationship counselling, marriage guidance, psychosexual, trauma-informed, somatic and holistic approaches to help you achieve the results that you desire.

If you need help to overcome difficult problems that are plaguing your love life or sex life and you’ve been struggling to find a way forward this is the bespoke solution for you.

Rhian has an international client base and her clients have ranged from lawyers, doctors, politicians, actors and even celebrities and peers to professionals, entrepreneurs and therapists.

She’s also had experience helping ex-patriates, military clients and couples who work away from home with the specific challenges they face.

She welcomes clients of all genders and sexual orientations.

THIS IS A SPECIALIST, PREMIUM THERAPEUTIC SERVICE OFFERING YOU SUPPORT, PERSONAL ATTENTION AND EXPERT GUIDANCE. APPOINTMENTS ARE AVAILABLE ONLINE TO ACCOMMODATE YOUR NEEDS WHEREVER YOU ARE IN THE WORLD.

You need an expert who has the professional skills, intuitive focus and experience to help you restore great sex, passion, pleasure and loving connection in your relationship.

When you face challenges in your work, you look for a consultant who’ll trouble-shoot, create solutions and guide you towards results. You need to understand deeply what’s going on, why it’s been happening and what you can do about it.

Wouldn’t it be incredible if you could get that kind of help for your relationship or sex life? Feeling happy, secure and fulfilled together is worth its weight in gold.

That’s where Rhian comes in.

She specialises in helping couples solve the sex, relationship and intimacy problems that are weighing them down so that they can reclaim pleasure and feel intimately connected again.

Your meetings take place online by video call – it’s easier than ever to get the professional help you need.

Rhian also recognises that you need more than just talking therapy. You need a bespoke package of support that’s completely tailored to your unique circumstances, needs and couple vision.

She knows that you need to build solid foundations to recover from the past and that you want to implement solutions so that you can overcome painful problems, get sex and intimacy back on track and restore your hope for a more loving, happier future within a truly conscious relationship.

That’s why Rhian offers exclusive expert help to clients who are totally committed to finding clarity, direction and solutions so that you can overcome the past and finally welcome pleasure and connection into your lives.

She has facilitated some incredible results for her clients, even when couples have almost given up on themselves because physical or emotional intimacy feels like a distant memory.

She believes that you deserve to enjoy great sex and feel alive, passionate and inspired together in your relationship – there’s no need to settle for anything less!

You need an expert who has the professional skills, intuitive focus and experience to help you restore great sex, passion, pleasure and loving connection in your relationship.

When you face challenges in your work, you look for a consultant who’ll trouble-shoot, create solutions and guide you towards results. You need to understand deeply what’s going on, why it’s been happening and what you can do about it.

Wouldn’t it be incredible if you could get that kind of help for your relationship or sex life? Feeling happy, secure and fulfilled together is worth its weight in gold.

That’s where Rhian comes in.

She specialises in helping couples solve the sex, relationship and intimacy problems that are weighing them down so that they can reclaim pleasure and feel intimately connected again.

Your meetings take place online by video call – it’s easier than ever to get the professional help you need.

Rhian also recognises that you need more than just talking therapy. You need a bespoke package of support that’s completely tailored to your unique circumstances, needs and couple vision.

She knows that you need to build solid foundations to recover from the past and that you want to implement solutions so that you can overcome painful problems, get sex and intimacy back on track and restore your hope for a more loving, happier future within a truly conscious relationship.

That’s why Rhian offers exclusive expert help to clients who are totally committed to finding clarity, direction and solutions so that you can overcome the past and finally welcome pleasure and connection into your lives.

She has facilitated some incredible results for her clients, even when couples have almost given up on themselves because physical or emotional intimacy feels like a distant memory.

She believes that you deserve to enjoy great sex and feel alive, passionate and inspired together in your relationship – there’s no need to settle for anything less!

Get In Touch

If you’d like to enquire about Rhian’s availability drop us a line and we’ll get back to you within 48 hours to discuss the next steps.

Take action now to save your relationship or sex life, reclaim a passionate, secure connection and avoid the pain and disruption of separation or divorce.

Rhian’s Expertise

Rhian is a Relate qualified Relationship Therapist with additional training in Psychosexual Therapy and a Post Graduate Training qualification.

She’s delivered thousands of hours helping clients find solutions to complex problems so that they can emerge from the confusion and rescue their struggling relationships.

She has a comprehensive professional development portfolio including a Diploma in Mindfulness. She is trauma-informed and has a wealth of experience with complex mental health issues, having previously worked for the organisation Mind.

Her style draws on psychodynamic, cognitive behavioural, solution focused, motivational, somatic and psycho-educational approaches.

As a graduate of the Urban Tantra Professional Training program she has a passion for the mind-body connection. She’s also studied complementary approaches to relationships, intimacy and sexuality.

Her clients go from feeling paralysed by the past, resentful and disconnected to enjoying intimate relationships with great communication, rekindled passion and restored hope for their longterm future.

IT’S NEVER TOO LATE TO LEARN HOW TO CREATE HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS AND DISCOVER THE CONNECTION AND PLEASURE THAT YOU’VE BEEN MISSING.

Client Experiences

“There are some people who just have the gift for saying the right thing. You’ve been a ray of light.”

D | Homemaker

Learning to enjoy sex again and feel safe after a traumatic relationship.

“Rhian is an insightful, empathetic and thoughtful professional who has changed my life. I felt like I could tell her anything, and she encouraged me to challenge myself to get to the core of my issues. I would recommend her to anyone without hesitation.”

G | Music Producer

Working through unresolved childhood trauma.

“We didn’t know if we could stay together. She helped us think and explore the options. We appreciated Rhian’s warmth, her good memory and her light sensible approach. She helped D find ways to deal with debilitating anxiety and to cope with daily life at a difficult uncertain time.”

D | Lawyer & M | Designer

Couple who did not know whether they could stay together after an affair.

“We love Rhian’s authenticity – she is calm and full of knowledge. She’s helped us to know true value of loving each other within our marriage.”

V | Homemaker & J | Military

Recurrent arguments plagued this couple's marriage.

“We resolve conflict quicker, our expectations are realistic and we have learned better communication skills. You taught me how to stop bringing issues from my previous relationship into my new one.”

A | Therapist

Seeking solutions for constant conflict about sex.

“We finally put an end to repetitive arguments that drained our energy. We agreed to apply Rhian’s solutions together and she helped us restore joy in our relationship that had been missing. We found deeper connection and started to understand each other. We haven’t had a real argument in the last 3 months thanks to Rhian!”

M | Media CEO & B | Entrepreneur

Communication breakdown and conflicting priorities were affecting this relationship.

Is This Right For You?

Solve Your Problems

Get the solutions from an expert who’s delivered thousands of hours support to couples and individuals with sex, relationship and intimacy problems.

Enjoy A Safe Space

Enjoy a confidential, supportive and safe space where couples of all genders and sexual orientations are welcomed and the unique vibrance of your intimate relationship is celebrated.

Invest In Yourselves

Invest in your emotional well-being and personal growth to overcome the painful problems that have been plaguing your relationships and sex life.

An initial assessment will help you explore the issues, identify the possible root causes and consider the solutions that are suited to you.

The results of therapy or coaching always depend on your commitment, capacity to change and desire to work through the issues.

Please see Ts & Cs before booking.

© RHIAN KIVITS 2024 | GET IN TOUCH NOW: info@rhiankivits.com

Rhian In The Media

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GET ME GIDDY – HBO’s ‘The White Lotus’: How to Explore Your Authentic Needs

THE MIRROR – ‘Fizzling’ Is The New Dating Trend

NEWSWEEK – Sister Refusing To Babysit in Exchange for Free Vacation Slammed: ‘Unpaid’

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NATIONAL WORLD – What Does Narcissist Mean?

METRO – Want To Try The Amazon Sex Position?

NEWSWEEK – Woman Cheered for Demanding Pregnant Sister Give Her Master Suite

METRO – Is it okay to fantasise about someone else when you’re in bed with your partner?

WOMEN’S HEALTH – Is It Time To Get A Sleep Divorce?

NEWSWEEK – Homeless Mom Moving out of Brother-In-Law’s Home Over His Comments Cheered

NEWSWEEK – Parents Giving Their Daughter More Inheritance Than Son Praised—’Entitled

GLAMOUR MAGAZINE – Why Are So Many Straight Men Threatened By Successful Women?

NEWSWEEK – Man Dragged After Letting Pregnant Fiancée Think He Was Cheating: ‘Stupid’

I-NEWS – Nine Rules For A Happy Marriage

NEWSWEEK – Woman Kicking Sister-in-Law Out, Forcing Her To End Vacation Early, Cheered

NEWSWEEK – Doctor Wife Trying to Force Husband to Quit Job Slated Online — ‘Embarrassed’

NATIONAL WORLD – The TikTok Loyalty Trend

STYLIST – Your Love Language Forms Your Dating Deal Breakers

OK! –  What To Say And What Not To Say To A Loved One Coming Out

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STYLIST – Why The Creators Of TikTok’s Dating Wrapped Trend Could Be Onto Something

NEWSWEEK – Woman Banned For Telling Best Friend Everyone Thinks He Is Disgusting

NEWSWEEK – Spouse Slammed Over Trying To Ban Husband From Friend’s Funeral

NEWSWEEK – Dad Not Taking Ex To Son’s Wedding

GIDDY – Scared Of Commitment

METRO – How To Deal With Your Partner Crossing A Line

COSMOPOLITAN – A Beginners Guide To Mirror Sex

METRO – Why Does My Partner Feel More Like A Roommate Than A Lover?

METRO – 12 Signs You’re Dating A Player & How To Handle Their Games

DAILY STAR – Love Island’s Amber And Dami Doomed

METRO – ‘Coronesty’ And How The Pandemic Has Changed Attitudes To Dating

YAHOO LIFE – Make Your Dating Profile Irresistible – Expert Gives Her Top Tips

METRO – Why Is It So Hot When Someone Calls Your Last Name?

GET PAIRED – How To Decide When To Become Exclusive

STYLIST – Sexual Values, What Are They And Why Are They Important?

REFINERY29 – The Reality Of Dating A Younger Man At Work

METRO – How To Deal With A Partner Who’s Too Confrontational

METRO – Have You Been Breadcrumbed In Dating?

GET PAIRED – Questions To Ask Your Unfaithful Partner

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METRO – How To Navigate Dating After The Death Of A Partner

YAHOO LIFE – Jason Momoa & Lisa Bonet Grew Apart, So What If It Happens To Your Marriage?

METRO – Can You Fall In Love With Someone When You Don’t Speak The Same Language?

MARIECLAIRE US – Megan Fox & Machine Gun Kelly Are True Soulmates

STYLIST – Sex After Miscarriage: The Truth About The Last Taboo Of Pregnancy Loss

YAHOO LIFE – Affleck Trapped By Garner Marriage: What To Do If It Happens To You

i-D VICE – Can You Really Manifest Things Through Orgasm?

YAHOO LIFE – As Jamie Redknapp Remarries, How Do You Move On From An Ex You Still Love?

YAHOO LIFE – Sophie Ellis-Bextor Reveals The Heavy Price Of Starring On Strictly – And How It Almost Ruined Her Marriage

MAIL + – Is Your Relationship Stuck In Lockdown?

DAILY STAR – Love Island Jake’s Giveaway Clues That Girls Were Right About Fake Love Declaration

DAILY STAR – Love Island’s Abi Has A Game Plan

DAILY STAR – Love Island’s Faye Is Super Bothered About ‘Bombshell” Despite Filing Her Nails

DAYE – We Need To Start Thinking About Closing The Orgasm Gap

METRO – Signs Your Casual Fling Has The Potential To Be Something More

GET PAIRED – Is It Normal For Couples To Argue?

STYLIST – 5 Practical And Thoughtful Ways You Can Support Someone Going Through IVF

DAILY STAR – Love Island Lads Are Worried About Suffering From Corona Boner Says Sex Expert

DAILY STAR – Tarot Reader Predicts Love Island’s Toby And Millie Are True Soulmates

DAILY STAR – Love Island Fans Insist Amy Hates Hugo But Body Language Expert Says Not

READER’S DIGEST – Sexual Bereavement, The Grief We Don’t Talk About

MAIL ON SUNDAY – Have You Ever Experienced A Time Slip? 

YOURS – What We’re Doing To Stay Calm

MEN’S HEALTH – I Never Thought It Would Be Me, The Men Who Use Sperm Donors

SUNDAY EDIT – The Art Of A Good Apology

THE DAILY MAIL – Nightmare Week? Blame It On Mercury

THE FEMEDIC – Navigating Sex With Type One Diabetes And An Insulin Pump

ART AND OBJECT – Folk Art Tells Stories Of Struggles

THE DAILY TELEGRAPH – Divorce Regret Is Real

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HUFFPOST – How To Survive Seasonal Affective Disorder As A Couple

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THRIVE GLOBAL – Navigating Needs In Relationships

THE LIFE ADVENTURE – How To Keep The Sunshine In Your Relationship

PSYCHOLOGIES – Christmas Edition 2022 – Advice: Is It Really Kinder To Live A Lie?

BBC RADIO DEVON – Radio Interview 4th January 2023 – Why So Many Couples Seek Relationship Help In January

HAPPIFUL – Dare To Dream (Print Issue 66)

CLOSER (print only March 2022) – My Boyfriend Is Happy My Sugar Daddy Pays Our Bills

WOMAN – (28/2/22 Print Only) Are You Ever Too Old For Sex?

GB News Breakfast With Eamonn – Boredom In The Bedroom (live TV appearance 27 January)

PSYCHOLOGIES (Print Edition Dec 2021) – Gifting

WOMAN MAGAZINE (print issue 34) – Dating Tips For Over 50s

SUNDAY MIRROR – (print only 4th July 2021) Former Stars Flog Sexy Snaps Online

CLOSER – (print only 29th June 2021) Cheating Won’t Make You Happier

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