Rhian Kivits, Relate qualified Therapist and Sex and Relationship Expert, runs an independent service for couples who want to solve problems, improve their sex lives and restore loving connection in their relationships. She also runs a specialist service for individuals recovering from the trauma of narcissistic abuse.
Rhian combines her knowledge of the most effective relationship counselling, marriage guidance, psychosexual, trauma-informed, somatic and holistic approaches to help you achieve the results that you desire.
If you need help to overcome difficult problems that are plaguing your love life or sex life and you’ve been struggling to find a way forward this is the bespoke solution for you.
Rhian has an international client base and her clients have ranged from lawyers, doctors, politicians, actors and even celebrities and peers to professionals, entrepreneurs and therapists.
She’s also had experience helping ex-patriates, military clients and couples who work away from home with the specific challenges they face.
She welcomes clients of all genders and sexual orientations.
When you face challenges in your work, you look for a consultant who’ll trouble-shoot, create solutions and guide you towards results. You need to understand deeply what’s going on, why it’s been happening and what you can do about it.
Wouldn’t it be incredible if you could get that kind of help for your relationship or sex life? Feeling happy, secure and fulfilled together is worth its weight in gold.
That’s where Rhian comes in. She specialises in helping couples solve the sex, relationship and intimacy problems that are weighing them down so that they can reclaim pleasure and feel intimately connected again.
Your meetings take place online by video call and evening appointments are available to suit your busy schedule – it’s easier than ever to get the professional help you need.
Rhian also recognises that you need more than just talking therapy.
You need a bespoke package of support that’s completely tailored to your unique circumstances, needs and couple vision. She also knows that you need to build solid foundations to recover from the past and that you want to implement solutions so that you can overcome painful problems, get sex and intimacy back on track and restore your hope for a more loving, happier future within a truly conscious relationship.
That’s why Rhian offers exclusive expert help to clients who are totally committed to finding clarity, direction and solutions so that you can overcome the past and finally welcome pleasure and connection into your lives.
She has facilitated some incredible results for her clients, even when couples have almost given up on themselves because physical or emotional intimacy feels like a distant memory.
She believes that you deserve to enjoy great sex and feel alive, passionate and inspired together in your relationship – there’s no need to settle for anything less!
Rhian is a Relate qualified Relationship Therapist with additional training in Psychosexual Therapy and a Post Graduate Training qualification.
Her service is a unique, signature process that combines her professional training and her embodied knowledge, making her a true expert in her field.
She has a comprehensive professional development portfolio including a Diploma in Mindfulness. She is trauma-informed and has a wealth of experience with complex mental health issues, having previously worked for the organisation Mind.
Her style draws on psychodynamic, cognitive behavioural, solution focused, motivational and psycho-educational approaches.
As a graduate of the Urban Tantra Professional Training program she has a passion for the mind-body connection.
She’s also studied complementary approaches to relationships, intimacy and sexuality, somatic therapies, emotional healing, bodywork, intimate massage and breath work.
She’s delivered thousands of hours helping clients find solutions to complex problems so that they can emerge from the confusion and rescue their struggling relationships.
Her clients go from feeling paralysed by the past, resentful and disconnected to enjoying intimate relationships with great communication, rekindled passion and restored hope for their longterm future.
We may not have learned how to create healthy, fulfilling sex lives and relationships as young people and love is a topic that’s taboo in many families. But it’s never too late to start enjoying the pleasure and connection that’s been missing for you.
Real comments from some of Rhian's clients
D – Homemaker
Learning to enjoy sex and feel connected again after a traumatic relationship
“There are some people who just have the gift for saying the right thing. You’ve been a ray of light.”
G - Music Producer
Unresolved childhood issues were affecting this client
"Rhian is an insightful, empathetic and thoughtful professional who has changed my life. I felt like I could tell her anything, and she encouraged me to challenge myself to get to the core of my issues. I would recommend her to anyone without hesitation."
D - Lawyer & M - Designer
This couple had lost their spark
"We didn’t know if we could stay together. She helped us think and explore the options. We appreciated Rhian’s warmth, her good memory and her light sensible approach. She helped D find ways to deal with debilitating anxiety and to cope with daily life at a difficult uncertain time."
V - Homemaker & J - Military
Trust issues, problems with sex and dramatic disputes dominated this marriage
"We love Rhian’s authenticity – she is calm and full of knowledge. She’s helped us to know true value of loving each other within our marriage."
A - Therapist
Constant conflict over sex was destabilising this relationship
"We resolve conflict quicker, our expectations are realistic and we have learned better communication skills. You taught me how to stop bringing issues from my previous relationship into my new one."
M - Media CEO & B - Entrepreneur
Communication breakdown was destroying the intimacy in this marriage
"We finally put an end to repetitive arguments that drained our energy. We agreed to apply Rhian’s solutions together and she helped us restore joy in our relationship that had been missing. We found deeper connection and started to understand each other. We haven’t had a real argument in the last 3 months thanks to Rhian!"
Take action now to save your relationship or sex life, reclaim a passionate, secure connection and avoid the pain and disruption of separation or divorce.
Get the solutions from an expert who's delivered thousands of hours support to couples and individuals with sex, relationship and intimacy problems.
Enjoy a confidential, supportive and safe space where couples of all genders and sexual orientations are welcomed and the unique vibrance of your intimate relationship is celebrated.
Invest in your emotional well-being and personal growth to overcome the painful problems that have been plaguing your relationships and sex life.
Clients who are offered a package of support with Rhian receive an exclusive, premium level service completely tailored to your needs. An initial assessment will help you explore the issues, identify the possible root causes and consider the solutions that are suited to you.
Rhian only helps a very limited number of clients at any one time in order to offer you the level of care, attention and support you need – there may be a waiting list.
The results of any kind of therapy and coaching always depend on your commitment, willingness to change and desire to work through the problems.
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