specialist SEX & RELATIONSHIP THERAPY in UK & online for clients worldwide
I offer a safe, confidential therapeutic space for couples, Partners & SINGLES to process, explore, change, grow & find ways forward.
Rhian Kivits PGCE MNCS (Accred)
I’m a Relate qualified, accredited Counsellor and PGCE qualified Trainer with an additional specialism in Psychosexual issues.
I’m also an experienced Complementary Therapist, Holistic Healer and Bodyworker who takes about the mind-body-soul approach to life. I’m especially passionate about Conscious Relationships and I’ve taken training in Neo-Tantra and alternative approaches to sexuality.
I take an integrative approach to Therapy and my philosophy is all about promoting empowering ways to work through difficulties and reach for everything you want from life – and more. I work confidentially online (by video or voice call) with couples, singles and groups.
The benefits of working together online
Sessions take place online only via Video Call or Internet Call. This means I can offer you flexibility and I can work with you no matter where in the World you are located. This works very well for busy couples or singles, if you have difficulty arranging childcare or would prefer to cut out the stress of travelling to an appointment. All you need is an internet connection.
What I can help with
I offer Sex & Relationship Therapy for couples or individuals. This is a specialist service.
Your therapy will be ONLINE by video call or internet call so I can work with you no matter where in the World you are located. I am not currently offering face to face clinic based sessions.
I have helped hundreds of individuals and couples find clarity and a way forward.
I am trained in a variety of approaches including psychodynamic, systemic, person centred, solution focused and cognitive behavioural (CBT). I’m also trained in Mindfulness and often bring in psychoeducation, positive thinking and motivational approaches if you need support with positive change. Sometimes this might mean taking a coaching approach if this feels right for you. When we first meet, we will have a full discussion about your issues and I’ll explain how we will approach our work together.
I work with clients of all genders and sexual orientations. I’m open minded and LGBTQ+ friendly. I’m experienced in working with Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Diversities and have had training on the specific issues you face. Click here to find out more about how I work.
How your counselling will be structured
Sessions will usually be for 50 minutes on a weekly basis. After a focused period of counselling, you may wish to attend monthly or occasionally for ongoing support. I’m able to work flexibly to make sure you are supported according to your personal needs.
You may only need a few sessions or you may want to attend longer term therapy – we will review your progress together to make sure you’re getting the most out of your counselling.
Sessions must be booked and paid for in advance and I operate a strict 48 hour cancellation policy in accordance with the terms and conditions on this website due to my limited availability and high demand for appointments.
How I support you
I am a sensitive and compassionate person. I understand how hard it can be for you to talk about your problems. I am honest but I will not judge or disapprove. I offer a safe, supportive environment to help you feel at ease. I do have a sense of humour and an open personality so we’ll be on a journey together. This means progressing at your pace and acknowledging your needs as we work together to help you make sense of what is happening in your life and consider how you can move forward.
Training, qualifications & experience
Relate Institute/Doncaster University Centre Counselling Diploma
Advanced Training in Psychosexual Therapy and a Diploma in Mindfulness
PGCE (Post Graduate Certificate in Post Compulsory Education & Training)
Adult Literacy Specialist Post Graduate Certificate
Further training attended:
Child Protection & Safeguarding
Mental Health Awareness
Domestic Violence Assessment, Intervention & Individual Structured Interviews
Couples & Affairs
Erotic Transference & Counter Transference
Sexual Health Training
Understanding Sex and Internet Addiction, Treating Sexual Compulsion and Addiction, Supporting the Partners of Sex Addicts
Urban Tantra Professional Training Program & Tantra Massage Training
Mindful Sex and Relationship Therapy
Gender Variance in Primary Care
Gender and Sexual Diversity
I’ve worked with hundreds of couples and individuals as a Counsellor. I’ve also spent over 15 years working at management level in professional training and mentoring roles helping people overcome challenges in their lives. This included time spent working for the Mental Health charity Mind delivering talking therapies, training young people with emotional and behavioural difficulties in the Further Education sector and managing services for families coping with deprivation. I also have over 10 years experience as a Teacher and Practitioner of Complementary Therapies and hold a variety of qualifications in this area.
I’m a keen writer, with recent work published in the Relate National Blog, well-being site Learn Shed Live and ‘agony aunt’ columns for the local press. I also get involved in training, marketing and copy writing projects for therapists and therapy organisations.
I ran the SOS (Save Our Sex) Sexpert service and author a regular Sexpert blog for vintage/retro themed erotic accessory retailer Knicker Rocker Glory – unfortunately KRG is no longer trading, but it was great fun answering questions that were submitted from all over the World.
I am an Accredited Member of the National Counselling Society.